I live and work in South Central Los Angeles where the wail of sirens, the crack of bullets, and human images outlined in chalk on sidewalks often over shadow the beauty of the people and wealth of my community. At an early age, I experienced the power of healing and meaningful connections in my community. At a young age, I was subjected to various traumas and intense painful experiences. I was forced to embrace my gifts so that the trauma, pain and anger did not become the dominating predicaments. Now in my maturity, I realize how meaningful relationships helped me navigate and helped me embrace the wonderful healing power in life.

What I do is inspired by the philosophy of Ubuntu. Ubuntu values relationships that are based on social, cultural, and spiritual criteria. Ubuntu communicates interdependence, diversity, a sense of belonging, and reciprocity based on principles of equity among and between generations to share resources. I am inspired by this philosophy to seek creative ways that support individuals and communities to heal from their pain and trauma.

My humble role is to facilitate spaces for healing, meaningful connections, cultural celebrations, and visioning for “Community Enhancement.” In this space, I do what I do to help young men navigate multiple rites of passage. I do what I do because the elders are always giving from their bundle of life experiences. I honor of my ancestors, and more importantly, the seven generations not yet born.

This essay and portrait is part of a community-art and leadership project called “wdydwyd?” Tony Deifell (KNLP-16) invited his colleagues in the Kellogg Fellowship to reflect on what motivates them to follow their personal and professional paths by answering the question, “Why do you do what you do?”


“wdydwyd?” has reached over 1.5 million people worldwide and it has been used for team-building at Google, Twitter, many colleges and universities, nonprofits and K-12 classrooms. And, according to Wired Magazine, “In Silicon Valley, that question has been the hottest team-building meme since Outward Bound – and it’s spreading.” For more information: http://wdydwyd.com/leadership.


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