“But you’re not a dirty Mexican.” Although those words were spoken to me in the Fall of 1979 in a late night freshman dorm setting, I still hear them, and their not-so-subtle message that I’m unlike most Mexicans, who presumably are dirty. Sometimes I hear them in a whisper, and other times they shout, vibrating in a rage. Words. Words are powerful. They can heal, make your spirit soar, wound deeply, send you into self-destruction. I chose not to destroy, but to create. I am led to use words. Too numb that night in 1979 to say anything at all, I eventually found my voice. To say what? I use words to write about injustice, to speak for justice, to inspire action, and to encourage reflection. I desire to use words in ways that are both thoughtful and thought-provoking. To help people resist the oppression of accepting negative stereotypes about who they are. To liberate people from others’ definitions, and to soar with the freedom of defining for themselves who they are. Words help me navigate rivers I have not yet seen, and smell flowers I have only imagined. Words of fire have sparked action, and words of compassion have saved me. Language has embraced me, and words of love have set me free.   

This essay and portrait is part of a community-art and leadership project called “wdydwyd?” Tony Deifell (KNLP-16) invited his colleagues in the Kellogg Fellowship to reflect on what motivates them to follow their personal and professional paths by answering the question, “Why do you do what you do?”


“wdydwyd?” has reached over 1.5 million people worldwide and it has been used for team-building at Google, Twitter, many colleges and universities, nonprofits and K-12 classrooms. And, according to Wired Magazine, “In Silicon Valley, that question has been the hottest team-building meme since Outward Bound – and it’s spreading.” For more information: http://wdydwyd.com/leadership.


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